patientrenter: “It’s the moment of truth, and the disparity between your hopes is about to be revealed. You just have to be firm. He might still want to be with you, but then you and he will both know that he’ll be playing the role of the reliable provider.”
Reliable provider? Nah. Not only do I want to play that role for myself, I NEED to. Not everybody can understand that. I don’t even want to buy a house with a man again.
It seems that some of you men feel that if you’re not the provider, you’re misplaced somehow. Understandable. There are different things that can make a man feel loved and needed, when I settle on someone, I’ll have to use another way to meet that need.
novice: “I say if you have this many questions about someone after four dates. Stop wasting yours and his time.”
Novice, I have enjoyed his company. This topic has been the only issue thus far.
