Nice post SK
That describes my community also and I’m miles away from CV. Yes we have overzealous parents (more sports than academics here) but most are just good involved parents providing their kids with a healthy and happy environment in which to enjoy their wonder years. Sure we have to dodge our share of lizards while wandering around our far flung Nirvana wondering why we live in Mello Roos burdened tract homes but we like each other. I know my neighbors and they know me. I went to some of their weddings and will go to their childens weddings.