Next time you sit down for dinner take your wife by the hands and have a staring contest, that should shake things up a bit. By the way let us know who wins and don’t be ashamed if it’s her. If you haven’t “found” yourself by the time you’re 40 then you’re probably lost. Above link reminds me of the movie “Interstellar” where even the computer(who’s truthful 90% of the time) says it ok to lie sometimes.