Mentioned this thread to my wife, and, although she admitted she, and most women she knows prefer men who are not overweight, along with certain other physical attributes (tall, dark; tall, blonde, tan, muscular, fit, etc. and a few other traits I can’t mention because they are not pc) she also mentioned a survey she agrees with citing traits like being romantic, faithful, dependable, confident, successful, a good listener, intelligent, having a sense of humor, being a good Dad,etc. as equally important.