Men really need to keep their dicks in their pants if they don’t want to pay up. Women on the other hand are all too eager to procreate thinking that it’ll bring happiness to the relationship and to use the children as pawns.
I do agree that you can’t squeeze juice out of sand. The whole family better get ready for a change in lifestyle. Married, or divorced, a family’s lifestyle depends on the parent’s earnings. The judge will look at the parents’ total earnings and allocate the funds based on that. There’s nothing else the judge can do.