[quote=Hobie]Suppose you go for it. You diligently are working off the debt and she is now pregnant. And she wants to fix up the place ( nesting) You say, I don’t have the $ for a while due to her debt. Tensions mount and you now have a kid with her. Bad plan.
+100 to scardy
especially how we become our fathers and daughters mimic their moms.
And, I don’t think you mentioned it or I missed it, but it didn’t sound like she has the ability or job potential to make a dent in this 90k. Strike 3.[/quote]
yeah plus 100 to me. im collecting those points in a little box.. i am really starting to hate this wench. she’s upset that you don’t want a 90k bill for her moms felonious conduct whcih she claims she didn’t know about but which hasn’t caused an irrevocable rift in their relationship. I can almost guarantee with 100 % certainty that had you married her you would be raked over the divorce coals in perpetuity until you were just nothing, a burnt hollow ash of your former robust self.
i HATE HER!!!!
for the record i don’tt hink we exactly become our parents. there is change. but there are certain things that seem to often get passed on that may express themselves in different ways. like maybe her mom’s a crook because she feels entitled toa certain lifestyle. maybe her daughter isn’t an actual crook, but gets the same basic underlying message and instead gets the money not from stealing but by say screwing you over ina divorce…
i need more info, but really, in spite of that, im ready to pass jugdment on her right this minute…
