Do what I do, only show your wife properties that have past your screening. Then she decides to buy the property she likes best from the ones you’re comfortable with buying.
Seriously, my wife is as concerned about finances as I am, so I guess I lucked out. We will not buy unless we’re both happy with the property. We certainly have no shortage of choices now and time is on our side. The longer we wait the better off we’ll be so we’re certainly not in a hurry.