California is pretty full of that IMHO I can’t put my finger on exactly when, IMO, Hefner went from being ‘the Dude’ to creepy old guy with a thing for young barely consenting age blonde girls.
And at the risk of completely derailing the conversation, am I the only one whose guydar goes off when I see photos of Sterlings alleged mistress? I’m not trying to denigrate the transgender community but her image for me really reminds me of the few people that I’ve encountered that we’re in process of transition.