As Shoveler noted, environment, external and internal is more important.
I’ve seen 3500sf homes that burn nearly a 1000sf up in the just the master suite closet and bath, not including the bedroom. I’ve seen home layouts that makes 2500 sf seem cramped while a 1500 sf place with the same number of bed and baths seem spacious.
You need to determine what functional areas do you need. What exterior space you need and what public space and access to it you need.
For me personally, with small children now, desirability of trendy restaurants and nightlife is near zero and desirability of walk-ability, access to parks, grocery stores, libraries, old downtown areas and child friendly public space and a community garden is high.
