You’re still thinking of it as winners and “Losers”.
Those high tech jobs are growing like mad, the only problem is they’re growing slower than the labor force. So train your kid to be one of the high achievers, they can chase the shrinking pie like all those “losers”.
Teach your kids to compete, adapt, that’s all good. Teach them to study, learn and strive, that’s good too.
Eventually maybe you’ll ask yourself how long it will last if we’ve set up the playing field so 95% of population is chasing a shrinking pie, 4.9% are holding their own, and everything else is going to the 0.1%?