[quote=njtosd][quote=scaredyclassic][quote=spdrun]Because suitable for you might not be suitable/attractive for them, depending on the criteria. Unless your criteria are extremely broad, like “not a thief or axe murderer.”[/quote]
Parents,pretty much know what’s best for you. And,all women are basically the same. You’ll learn to love each other.[/quote]
Do you believe that all men are basically the same? My parents (especially my mother) had no clue about who was best for me.
FYI – women are not all the same. There are some seriously crazy ones. Especially if their fathers were jerks.[/quote]
ok, maybe I was too broad…all the women that your family would pre-screen as suitable for marriage are more or less the same and anyone of them could work happily, and probably more likely than a child following his heart, on average. same for both sexes.