the national trend is toward some reform…endless payouts just don’t sit well with people’s feelings about equality, the potential to work and change and fairness…
really, getting married is such an incredible risk for so many high earners…to not get a prenup is just a sign that when one is in love, one is on drugs so powerful, mindaltering and fuckedup that heroin and cocaine might as well be tea and aspirin.[/quote]
I’d just go back to this, change has some things with unfortunate lag times… you have to be faster than the machine…it’s slow, don’t be a sheep , make it work.