[quote=Enorah]I feel really sad reading this thread[/quote]
Which is why I originally planned to stay out of this one, why make divide between the sexes deeper than it already is? If someone finds their way into an unhappy or unhealthy relationship, they should find their way out of it, the process will benefit them.

Whenever I’ve been in a conversation with a friend and we are talking about another friend in a relationship where it seems unpleasant, my first response is usually “well, maybe her’s shoots sparks or something.” I’ve done exhaustive research and women are similarly equipped, there are variances, but none are worth subjecting oneself to undue hardship for time spent with their anatomy.

It’s gotta be more than just sexual power or fear of financial loss. People get into, stay in, or create unhealthy/unbalanced relationships for a reason, one rooted in their own psychology, not their sexuality.

If you could waive a magic wand and free that guy of all financial loss, end his relationship and let him start over without pain or loss, he will likely end up in exactly the same situation he is in now. Another poster mentioned wife 1.0 and wife 2.0, the only reason wife 2.0 works was because of wife 1.0, not in spite of her.

Once again, life charges tuition for it’s lessons just like a university does, both are worth the money.