Assume…

a) Your assumption is actually what I’d LIKE to assume. She’s in the denial stage.

Thus…

” Granted, you’re not legally responsible for the credit-card balances ran up before you got married, or for any loans opened in your spouse’s name alone — provided you keep your finances completely separate. ”

re: http://www.smartmoney.com/divorce/marriage/index.cfm?story=mistakes

Marion,

Of course you are not “buying” it! The first reason for this is that

a) I am not selling it and
b) you accurately gauge that whether you lend credence or no to the facts as they are is absolutely irrelevant.

ciao for now…

Voz

ps- my stomach IS churning a bit!! 🙂

it has more to do w/ myriad details of the logistical sort, the necessity of working this evening and a sore lack of access to whiskey.