[TemekuT]

Well written, Bugs. You reap what you sow, or as I prefer to think of it, you invent the future that you want to face.

My own divorce was amicable because we (ex & I) kept our issues private and worked towards the common good of our daughter. The reward is a peaceful relationship with my ex that allows my daughter to feel safe with either parent and new spouses. BTW, she is 31 now, loves her stepfather and stepmother, and knows she can talk about either parent in front of the other and that both sets of parents can be in the other’s homes for a drink!

[TemekuT]

Well written, Bugs. You reap what you sow, or as I prefer to think of it, you invent the future that you want to face.

My own divorce was amicable because we (ex & I) kept our issues private and worked towards the common good of our daughter. The reward is a peaceful relationship with my ex that allows my daughter to feel safe with either parent and new spouses. BTW, she is 31 now, loves her stepfather and stepmother, and knows she can talk about either parent in front of the other and that both sets of parents can be in the other’s homes for a drink!

[TemekuT]

Well written, Bugs. You reap what you sow, or as I prefer to think of it, you invent the future that you want to face.

My own divorce was amicable because we (ex & I) kept our issues private and worked towards the common good of our daughter. The reward is a peaceful relationship with my ex that allows my daughter to feel safe with either parent and new spouses. BTW, she is 31 now, loves her stepfather and stepmother, and knows she can talk about either parent in front of the other and that both sets of parents can be in the other’s homes for a drink!

[TemekuT]

Well written, Bugs. You reap what you sow, or as I prefer to think of it, you invent the future that you want to face.

My own divorce was amicable because we (ex & I) kept our issues private and worked towards the common good of our daughter. The reward is a peaceful relationship with my ex that allows my daughter to feel safe with either parent and new spouses. BTW, she is 31 now, loves her stepfather and stepmother, and knows she can talk about either parent in front of the other and that both sets of parents can be in the other’s homes for a drink!

[TemekuT]

Well written, Bugs. You reap what you sow, or as I prefer to think of it, you invent the future that you want to face.

My own divorce was amicable because we (ex & I) kept our issues private and worked towards the common good of our daughter. The reward is a peaceful relationship with my ex that allows my daughter to feel safe with either parent and new spouses. BTW, she is 31 now, loves her stepfather and stepmother, and knows she can talk about either parent in front of the other and that both sets of parents can be in the other’s homes for a drink!

[TemekuT]

Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.

[TemekuT]

Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.

[TemekuT]

Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.

[TemekuT]

Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.

[TemekuT]

Come on now, let’s not let this post disintegrate to insults. Marion inadvertently posted a topic that will lead to good advice for her.

Divorce can bring out the worst in people so hopefully someone will read this thread and learn how not to act in the event of divorce.

Acting with restraint now will yield future dividends.

Acting with malice now will create angry children, preclude future peaceful attendance at what should be happy events for the kids, and set the background for irredeemable consequences.

p.s. Marion, that’s pretty sad that your parents are involved in this also and that they are taking sides against your sisters and that your side of the family is being pitted against each other. No matter what, families never see the entire picture clearly and this is a prime example of lack of restraint.

[TemekuT]

You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”

[TemekuT]

You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”

[TemekuT]

You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”

[TemekuT]

You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”

[TemekuT]

You need to take the high road here and keep all of this off the internet and away from your boys. You will damage the boys more than they are already damaged if you become obsessive and angry and bitter because the attitudes will spill over into your everyday relationships. Those of us who have been through a divorce and survived with our dignity intact and who have built new relationships with the exes know this is a more productive path in the long run and allows for joint attendance at future weddings, funerals, and birthdays. And it’s “jugulars”, not “jugglers”

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