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[quote=Rhett]unless one is VERY important at UCSD and is ponying up a lot of money for a parking permit, they likely are a 15-minute walk (on average) from their office to their parking spot. The “driving home for lunch” factor just doesn’t apply.[/quote]

That is an excellent point, Rhett. I forgot about the parking situation in UCSD. Money may not be an issue for the OP and it sounds like his wife could be a tenured faculty. It also depends where she works on campus, if she is lucky, she might be working right next to the parking lot/garage. But definitely the time between office and parking lot/garage should be carefully considered.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=Scarlett][quote=bearishgurl] . . . That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.[/quote]

Scarlett, I stated 30 mins round trip (10-15 mins one way, depending on traffic) if living at UC.[/quote]
So did I :). 30′ round-trip , 30-35′ left for lunch. With a small baby AND a 5 year old those 30′ aren’t enough in this case, that’s all I am saying. I did it go occasionally home for lunch, yes. I actually did that mostly for other chores, than for lunch, which I’d rather enjoy in a more leisurely fashion. But it was not worth it to do it often.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=Scarlett][quote=bearishgurl] . . . That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.[/quote]

Scarlett, I stated 30 mins round trip (10-15 mins one way, depending on traffic) if living at UC.[/quote]
So did I :). 30′ round-trip , 30-35′ left for lunch. With a small baby AND a 5 year old those 30′ aren’t enough in this case, that’s all I am saying. I did it go occasionally home for lunch, yes. I actually did that mostly for other chores, than for lunch, which I’d rather enjoy in a more leisurely fashion. But it was not worth it to do it often.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=Scarlett][quote=bearishgurl] . . . That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.[/quote]

Scarlett, I stated 30 mins round trip (10-15 mins one way, depending on traffic) if living at UC.[/quote]
So did I :). 30′ round-trip , 30-35′ left for lunch. With a small baby AND a 5 year old those 30′ aren’t enough in this case, that’s all I am saying. I did it go occasionally home for lunch, yes. I actually did that mostly for other chores, than for lunch, which I’d rather enjoy in a more leisurely fashion. But it was not worth it to do it often.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=Scarlett][quote=bearishgurl] . . . That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.[/quote]

Scarlett, I stated 30 mins round trip (10-15 mins one way, depending on traffic) if living at UC.[/quote]
So did I :). 30′ round-trip , 30-35′ left for lunch. With a small baby AND a 5 year old those 30′ aren’t enough in this case, that’s all I am saying. I did it go occasionally home for lunch, yes. I actually did that mostly for other chores, than for lunch, which I’d rather enjoy in a more leisurely fashion. But it was not worth it to do it often.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=Scarlett][quote=bearishgurl] . . . That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.[/quote]

Scarlett, I stated 30 mins round trip (10-15 mins one way, depending on traffic) if living at UC.[/quote]
So did I :). 30′ round-trip , 30-35′ left for lunch. With a small baby AND a 5 year old those 30′ aren’t enough in this case, that’s all I am saying. I did it go occasionally home for lunch, yes. I actually did that mostly for other chores, than for lunch, which I’d rather enjoy in a more leisurely fashion. But it was not worth it to do it often.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=sdrealtor]Bullshit! By the time she walks out the office door, gets to the car, navigates surface streets, pulls in the driveway and walks in the door we are still talking a very likely 30 minutes in teh car round trip. Then she runs in the door, throws a sandwich together and shovels it down her throat in another 10 minutes only to hug those kids and say Mommy loves you before running out the door. Sounds wonderful to me. [/quote]

Thank you, sdr. That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=sdrealtor]Bullshit! By the time she walks out the office door, gets to the car, navigates surface streets, pulls in the driveway and walks in the door we are still talking a very likely 30 minutes in teh car round trip. Then she runs in the door, throws a sandwich together and shovels it down her throat in another 10 minutes only to hug those kids and say Mommy loves you before running out the door. Sounds wonderful to me. [/quote]

Thank you, sdr. That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=sdrealtor]Bullshit! By the time she walks out the office door, gets to the car, navigates surface streets, pulls in the driveway and walks in the door we are still talking a very likely 30 minutes in teh car round trip. Then she runs in the door, throws a sandwich together and shovels it down her throat in another 10 minutes only to hug those kids and say Mommy loves you before running out the door. Sounds wonderful to me. [/quote]

Thank you, sdr. That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=sdrealtor]Bullshit! By the time she walks out the office door, gets to the car, navigates surface streets, pulls in the driveway and walks in the door we are still talking a very likely 30 minutes in teh car round trip. Then she runs in the door, throws a sandwich together and shovels it down her throat in another 10 minutes only to hug those kids and say Mommy loves you before running out the door. Sounds wonderful to me. [/quote]

Thank you, sdr. That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=sdrealtor]Bullshit! By the time she walks out the office door, gets to the car, navigates surface streets, pulls in the driveway and walks in the door we are still talking a very likely 30 minutes in teh car round trip. Then she runs in the door, throws a sandwich together and shovels it down her throat in another 10 minutes only to hug those kids and say Mommy loves you before running out the door. Sounds wonderful to me. [/quote]

Thank you, sdr. That’s 15 mins max to/from “home” one way, living in UC.[/quote]

sdr is right – if it’s only 1 hour break. 30′ round trip – that means only 30′ left to get lunch ready, feed the kids and herself.

I worked at UCSD for a few years, lived in UTC right next to campus and without kids and going home for lunch was not really doable with only 1 hr. Barely had time to put something together and wolf it down. Add young kids in the mix that when they see their mommy home they want to do things with her and talk to her – and it’s almost impossible to do lunch together in half hour.

Sure dad working from home can help a bit but small kids don’t handle such quick transitions that well. Going home for lunch with 1 hour break it’s not something mom would be able to do no matter where she works in UCSD if she doesn’t live right on campus.

However if she can take regularly longer lunch breaks, then yes.

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