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Priceline…Palm Desert. Dinner at LG’s.

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CA Renter…I don’t think that is TG’s message. If the criteria is too orchestrated, too controlled, it is very limiting. The online personals are very intimidating…as TG said, it is not car shopping. Or house buying. Compatibility is key and if you are too rigid then it becomes a fight to the finish line. So, you find the man/woman that has no kids, good job, credit score, and he/she is an arrogant SOB/gold digger that you really don’t like. That is no fun.

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CA Renter…I don’t think that is TG’s message. If the criteria is too orchestrated, too controlled, it is very limiting. The online personals are very intimidating…as TG said, it is not car shopping. Or house buying. Compatibility is key and if you are too rigid then it becomes a fight to the finish line. So, you find the man/woman that has no kids, good job, credit score, and he/she is an arrogant SOB/gold digger that you really don’t like. That is no fun.

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CA Renter…I don’t think that is TG’s message. If the criteria is too orchestrated, too controlled, it is very limiting. The online personals are very intimidating…as TG said, it is not car shopping. Or house buying. Compatibility is key and if you are too rigid then it becomes a fight to the finish line. So, you find the man/woman that has no kids, good job, credit score, and he/she is an arrogant SOB/gold digger that you really don’t like. That is no fun.

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CA Renter…I don’t think that is TG’s message. If the criteria is too orchestrated, too controlled, it is very limiting. The online personals are very intimidating…as TG said, it is not car shopping. Or house buying. Compatibility is key and if you are too rigid then it becomes a fight to the finish line. So, you find the man/woman that has no kids, good job, credit score, and he/she is an arrogant SOB/gold digger that you really don’t like. That is no fun.

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CA Renter…I don’t think that is TG’s message. If the criteria is too orchestrated, too controlled, it is very limiting. The online personals are very intimidating…as TG said, it is not car shopping. Or house buying. Compatibility is key and if you are too rigid then it becomes a fight to the finish line. So, you find the man/woman that has no kids, good job, credit score, and he/she is an arrogant SOB/gold digger that you really don’t like. That is no fun.

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[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]

Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?

Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.

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[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]

Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?

Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.

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[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]

Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?

Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.

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[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]

Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?

Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.

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[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]

Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?

Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.

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davelj is not arrogant. He’s confident. He speaks the honest truth rather than mince words. That’s admirable in my opinion.

I would agree with scaredcat’s assessment on attraction. I would say that confidence is attractive.[/quote]

Hey sorry we couldn’t find a match for you, Josh. But I must say it’s just adorable to see this side love connection brewing. ♥ ♥ ♥[/quote]

I have suspected that Davelj and BrianSD are the same person.

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davelj is not arrogant. He’s confident. He speaks the honest truth rather than mince words. That’s admirable in my opinion.

I would agree with scaredcat’s assessment on attraction. I would say that confidence is attractive.[/quote]

Hey sorry we couldn’t find a match for you, Josh. But I must say it’s just adorable to see this side love connection brewing. ♥ ♥ ♥[/quote]

I have suspected that Davelj and BrianSD are the same person.

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[quote=CBad][quote=briansd1]
davelj is not arrogant. He’s confident. He speaks the honest truth rather than mince words. That’s admirable in my opinion.

I would agree with scaredcat’s assessment on attraction. I would say that confidence is attractive.[/quote]

Hey sorry we couldn’t find a match for you, Josh. But I must say it’s just adorable to see this side love connection brewing. ♥ ♥ ♥[/quote]

I have suspected that Davelj and BrianSD are the same person.

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[quote=CBad][quote=briansd1]
davelj is not arrogant. He’s confident. He speaks the honest truth rather than mince words. That’s admirable in my opinion.

I would agree with scaredcat’s assessment on attraction. I would say that confidence is attractive.[/quote]

Hey sorry we couldn’t find a match for you, Josh. But I must say it’s just adorable to see this side love connection brewing. ♥ ♥ ♥[/quote]

I have suspected that Davelj and BrianSD are the same person.

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