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Hi All,
We fought the ticket, written declaration. It was due 20 Feb and sent back via certified mail in January. The check for $290 was cashed. We have heard nothing since. Any idea how long this takes?

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Thanks Everyone. You guys are great.

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Teeth cleaning is good, esp for small dogs as their mouths are structured differently and they have more problems.

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Thank You Everyone. I decided that I would use another realtor more suitable for me, and told her that I would continue renting for awhile, and thanked her for her time.

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[quote=bearishgurl][quote=briansd1] . . . I would not consider legal proceedings and administrative work a form of public assistance….[/quote]

No, it’s not. The parties usually don’t really want to be there. But the end result is the same … a HUGE drain on state taxpayers and state services.

For example, consider unmarried parents in SD County where one parent is a legal citizen and one is not (VERY common scenario, btw). Lots of people think “anchor babies” are used to help their mothers become legal citizens. They fail to consider that it takes $ to apply for legal citizenship and even MORE $$ to LIVE here as opposed to MX. What about the mother who already owns a house in MX? Why should she move to SD County when her house in MX is free and clear?? The minute she files for child support in SD County, the “citizen dad” is served with papers and fights for 100% custody of the child, even though they may have been sharing the child back and forth across the border since its birth. The dad tells the judge he is afraid the mother will “flee” (lol) across the border with the child and he will never see the child again so makes a plea for “sole” custody, even though he may have never taken care of the child in his life! Do you know how many social workers, child-support workers and court personnel it takes to iron all this mess out??

brian, have you any idea how many cases on the SD Family Ct docket there are with this fact pattern??

Of course, BOTH parents apply for and are successfully granted Superior Ct “fee waivers.” If the child is ordered to have their own “minor’s counsel” during the pendency of the custody litigation, these separate attorneys are paid about $80 per hour by the court, who later “bills” the parents. But practically speaking, if one of the parents disappears back into MX, only to come up for air to pick up their child, how will the court collect from them?[/quote]

BG is completely accurate. In addition, they are a flood to other systems, such as juvenile court, child welfare services (CWS), and the criminal system. For example, if they get charged with domestic violence, the court sends them to a 52 week program, which is held in Spanish. Most of them are cooperative because they are afraid of being sent back. They also patronize many social service agencies, and are given a ton of hand outs.

If CWS gets involved, they yank the kids and make the parents go to parenting classes, etc. CWS doesn’t concern themselves with their legal or illegal status. Still, guess who pays for all of this?

Here is a most recent case:
Father and mother are illegals. They share house with 3 children. Father works construction. Family is active to CWS and the oldest son is in and out of juvenile hall. How many social workers, lawyers, judges, admin staff, etc are being used to deal with this? What are those costs?

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Second that.

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[quote=sdrealtor]Thats why we have wine….[/quote]

Concur.

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Fun thread. This thread could be renamed “What does your nightstand tell about you?”

Here’s mine:
Allure magazine.
Whole Dog Journal.
The Gold Coast by Kim Stanley Robinson. (before that was Nathaniel Philbrick novels)

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[quote=meadandale][quote=flu][quote=Hobie]Note to self, pre retirement, buy out of state RE attractive to California tastes. Honey, pass the brochure on Reno land. ;)[/quote]

Oregon isn’t bad you know. If you don’t mind the rain.[/quote]

Oregon isn’t bad…except for the Oregonians. I know too many people from Portland who are exactly like this:

http://youtu.be/l2LBICPEK6w%5B/quote%5D

That video was hilarious. Thanks for posting. Never been to Oregon, but planning to go to Portland over Labor Day Weekend.

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I store stuff out on the curb, put a free sign on it, and it disappears.

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Well done. Bumping it up.

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Fed gov pay raises have been frozen for 2 years and looking at several years more.

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Thanks Everyone! Great advice here. I am not concerned about getting the money, just because he is an M.D. in town, and I think it would be harder for him to disappear. He has his own practice. But then again, he has already been so manipulative and dishonest, so who knows?

I will definitely be very respectful, I work with the Navy and tend to be respectful as a general rule. I would not have known not to hand anything to the judge, and I will definitely make two copies.

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Allan–case is in Clairemont, San Diego.
Hobie–thanks. Really good feedback, I am definitely no BS’er. I have time lines, photos, and docs. I have no tatts, piercings, and dress professionally.

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Check out Allied Gardens and Rolando. They are close enough for “urban” but mostly SFR. Better schools, and in your price range.

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