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Isn’t saying “only youtube” kind of censorship?

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No doubt about the need for an enema. It isn’t going to happen. Just hope that the circus elephants don’t trample you and carry on.

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Many Women hate Trump because he shows them what they are made of. Gays hate him because they love their mommy Hillary. These at worst are Half Truths.

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I was at a party today and people who are normally democrats were making a case for Mitt Romney. They were from La Jolla, so there’s that.

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You can argue about these two shit bags all you want. From the echelon of people who could actually be president , evidently very few of them want to be.
Anyone who could be president is already rich and actually has a premium life compared to what president goes through. Only kind of fucked up egotistical people would want the job. That’s what we get. In Obama’s case if they are not extreme rich and powerful insiders a completely propped up telepromted puppet.

The whole process is tearing at the fabric of society. Get elected from the floor of the Jerry Springer show, manipulating people’s most base issues that have nothing to do with good governance and go to work for the oligarchs of which you probably are one. None of these people have being a public servant as a high priority. Can’t even let your kids watch the process it’s so bloody shameful.

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[quote=scaredyclassic]the stomach touch didnt offend me physically. i just dont want any hint of any problem so it was disturbing only in a boundary cross type way. since the overarching goal is Zero Problems, its best to.ignore and avoid.

if i touched a woman on her stomach, that would likely be offensive physically.[/quote]

Hang low , don’t make waves that’s what I am going to do. My kid is almost past the age where school is nearly completely female dominated I don’t have to go around these kind of people and the bubble they operate in. It was quite eye opening. So many things were said and done in the course of my involvement with the grade school that would have hurt a man’s career or rep and yet bringing it up would only hurt mine. Anyway there is always going to be stupid stuff.

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Remember it’s not always deal offering or making , retaliation for rejecting overtures or offers has been what gets many managers in trouble. So as you say they should never try anything but to set the most high standard. They should understand this as a matter of decency but they were slow to change , so legal standards had to come about.

Also gender based denigration and discrimination are more common than overt sexual acts but still considered hostile enough for protection to be warranted. Most discrimination of women , at least in the industrial era , has been of this kind. Setting the standard at plying favors or groping is wrong .

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[quote=harvey][quote=Blogstar]You are a traitor to your own gender.[/quote]

I don’t owe anything to my gender.[/quote]
Have it your way.

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[quote=FlyerInHi]Were you groped by teachers or were they just acting seductive because you’re hot?

Did they offer you a quid pro quo?[/quote]
I am not going to go into it here.

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[quote=scaredyclassic]lay low. avoid problems.[/quote]
If you have to do that because of your gender then you are oppressed.

I am about to take my kid and leave his school district partly influenced by three gender related blunders on the part of teachers towards me that have been hurtful to potentially very hurtful and have left me sort of angry and frightened. I know as a SAHD who has volunteered a little that I am putting myself in an unusual situation, but I expect that the teachers could behave maturely and sanely around me(many do).This is grade school, so all female teachers. I have quit volunteering and am hanging low as you say and am ready to bail. That’s oppressive.

I know what some will think and I am very careful about being around kids, but it seems classroom volunteer should be a safe place for me and other men. I don’t want to sue , but if these people are going to be so heavy on the sensitivity training I would like to see teacher be lectured on dealing with men in these changing times. State law says a parent can go in the classroom anytime they want. It shouldn’t be a hostile environment.

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[quote=scaredyclassic][quote=Blogstar]The two cases with the much older women were because my mother died when I was 10 and my dad was a drunk and I went door to door trying to make some money. From these chores, I bought my own school clothes and much of my own food starting in Middle School. They would have never done it if they knew I had a mom. They creeped on the vulnerability. Two from one neighborhood.

You are a traitor to your own gender. So many of them these days. You keep getting triggered by me, maybe you should quit being a jerk and really ask yourself why that is?[/quote]

a woman recently touched my stomach in the wokplace unprompted with no explicable context. im pretty sure if i did that id be sued.[/quote]

If she’s someone you will continue to work with, won’t you be scared to report her, and if you aren’t thinking about that, be scared because you didn’t report her ?

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The two cases with the much older women were because my mother died when I was 10 and my dad was a drunk and I went door to door trying to make some money. From these chores, I bought my own school clothes and much of my own food starting in Middle School. They would have never done it if they knew I had a mom. They creeped on the vulnerability. Two from one neighborhood.

You are a traitor to your own gender. So many of them these days. You keep getting triggered by me, maybe you should quit being a jerk and really ask yourself why that is?

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Well evidently it’s a required to be a dirty , nasty , manipulative person to make it to president. Probably should get over it, because that’s what we are going to get.

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Haven’t any of you men had a woman do something sexually in appropriate with you at work? I have had three overt instances. I never complained about any of them nor did I reciprocate. I have also had inappropriate things from three female teachers involved in my kid’s schools and been offered some modeling work on the condition that I would be this woman’s boyfriend. Also two instances of indecency by married women when I was a minor. I have never complained about any of it and it is not because I reciprocated the behaviors.

I really don’t like any idea of Trump sexualizing young girls and don’t approve of what he does in general but I don’t like the hypocrisy and the attempt at scoring points in the battle of the sexes off it, as on NPR, or scoring political points for Hillary off of it.

Hillary was probably one of Bill’s first creep “victims” but she has done well with it. There is a truism that somebody shows all of who they are to their dating partners within 3 months. She knew but couldn’t pass up a good ride to power. She defended Bill against his accusers , did the stand by your man thing for power. And this is with her feminist Wellesly education, what a farce.It’s Machavellian what she does. I want a female president but not her, couldn’t we have Elizabeth Warren? Not saying she is perfect but geez.

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[quote=svelte]Even Republican studies have shown attacking Hillary on her husband, her age, her stamina, her health or her looks does not work.

http://www.politico.com/story/2016/10/donald-trump-bill-clinton-attacks-republicans-229760

And what does Trump choose to emphasize?

His policies? What he’ll do as president? No, he focuses on Hillary’s husband and her health.

A 300 pound doofus.[/quote]

Be careful of the fat shaming.

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