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November 10, 2010 at 10:27 PM #630289November 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM #629204bearishgurlParticipant
[quote=walterwhite]let’s say you are quibbling about a very very small dollar amount but you strongly feel on principle the other side should pay for it. Would you risk losing a house you like ok over say 1,000th of the purchase price?
Banks act irrationally and intimdate people into caving; shouldn’t more buyers act like crazy bastards to let them know we won’t take their crap?[/quote]
Cut the $500 baby in half and dictate the exact week you need to close to get your post-closing cash flow in the best possible position to deal with this poo-remediation mess.
A lender “taking it in the shorts” typically has a RH/LH problem and needs to be kept on a short leash or they will run a buyer ragged for months. You’ve already wasted enough time. Tell them to get the “man” in there, pronto or they’re going to end up owning this cesspool.
November 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM #629282bearishgurlParticipant[quote=walterwhite]let’s say you are quibbling about a very very small dollar amount but you strongly feel on principle the other side should pay for it. Would you risk losing a house you like ok over say 1,000th of the purchase price?
Banks act irrationally and intimdate people into caving; shouldn’t more buyers act like crazy bastards to let them know we won’t take their crap?[/quote]
Cut the $500 baby in half and dictate the exact week you need to close to get your post-closing cash flow in the best possible position to deal with this poo-remediation mess.
A lender “taking it in the shorts” typically has a RH/LH problem and needs to be kept on a short leash or they will run a buyer ragged for months. You’ve already wasted enough time. Tell them to get the “man” in there, pronto or they’re going to end up owning this cesspool.
November 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM #629856bearishgurlParticipant[quote=walterwhite]let’s say you are quibbling about a very very small dollar amount but you strongly feel on principle the other side should pay for it. Would you risk losing a house you like ok over say 1,000th of the purchase price?
Banks act irrationally and intimdate people into caving; shouldn’t more buyers act like crazy bastards to let them know we won’t take their crap?[/quote]
Cut the $500 baby in half and dictate the exact week you need to close to get your post-closing cash flow in the best possible position to deal with this poo-remediation mess.
A lender “taking it in the shorts” typically has a RH/LH problem and needs to be kept on a short leash or they will run a buyer ragged for months. You’ve already wasted enough time. Tell them to get the “man” in there, pronto or they’re going to end up owning this cesspool.
November 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM #629983bearishgurlParticipant[quote=walterwhite]let’s say you are quibbling about a very very small dollar amount but you strongly feel on principle the other side should pay for it. Would you risk losing a house you like ok over say 1,000th of the purchase price?
Banks act irrationally and intimdate people into caving; shouldn’t more buyers act like crazy bastards to let them know we won’t take their crap?[/quote]
Cut the $500 baby in half and dictate the exact week you need to close to get your post-closing cash flow in the best possible position to deal with this poo-remediation mess.
A lender “taking it in the shorts” typically has a RH/LH problem and needs to be kept on a short leash or they will run a buyer ragged for months. You’ve already wasted enough time. Tell them to get the “man” in there, pronto or they’re going to end up owning this cesspool.
November 10, 2010 at 11:04 PM #630299bearishgurlParticipant[quote=walterwhite]let’s say you are quibbling about a very very small dollar amount but you strongly feel on principle the other side should pay for it. Would you risk losing a house you like ok over say 1,000th of the purchase price?
Banks act irrationally and intimdate people into caving; shouldn’t more buyers act like crazy bastards to let them know we won’t take their crap?[/quote]
Cut the $500 baby in half and dictate the exact week you need to close to get your post-closing cash flow in the best possible position to deal with this poo-remediation mess.
A lender “taking it in the shorts” typically has a RH/LH problem and needs to be kept on a short leash or they will run a buyer ragged for months. You’ve already wasted enough time. Tell them to get the “man” in there, pronto or they’re going to end up owning this cesspool.
November 11, 2010 at 12:02 AM #629219sdrealtorParticipantIf its a short sale you are dealing with some lowly paid clerical worker who does not give a crap. There is no almighty “lender” making the decision there are a bunch of over worked underpaid grunts making these things happen and ultimately with luck it ends up on some middle managers desk to sign off on. None of these people really care about the details, all they care about is getting another file off there desk as long as its easy for them. If not they have a couple hundred more to work on. Give it a shot and see what happens but dont stand on ceremony. You are only fighting yourself and no one on the other side cares. If you like ti and the deal makes sense do it- if not dont. Do not make this personal its only business.
November 11, 2010 at 12:02 AM #629297sdrealtorParticipantIf its a short sale you are dealing with some lowly paid clerical worker who does not give a crap. There is no almighty “lender” making the decision there are a bunch of over worked underpaid grunts making these things happen and ultimately with luck it ends up on some middle managers desk to sign off on. None of these people really care about the details, all they care about is getting another file off there desk as long as its easy for them. If not they have a couple hundred more to work on. Give it a shot and see what happens but dont stand on ceremony. You are only fighting yourself and no one on the other side cares. If you like ti and the deal makes sense do it- if not dont. Do not make this personal its only business.
November 11, 2010 at 12:02 AM #629871sdrealtorParticipantIf its a short sale you are dealing with some lowly paid clerical worker who does not give a crap. There is no almighty “lender” making the decision there are a bunch of over worked underpaid grunts making these things happen and ultimately with luck it ends up on some middle managers desk to sign off on. None of these people really care about the details, all they care about is getting another file off there desk as long as its easy for them. If not they have a couple hundred more to work on. Give it a shot and see what happens but dont stand on ceremony. You are only fighting yourself and no one on the other side cares. If you like ti and the deal makes sense do it- if not dont. Do not make this personal its only business.
November 11, 2010 at 12:02 AM #629998sdrealtorParticipantIf its a short sale you are dealing with some lowly paid clerical worker who does not give a crap. There is no almighty “lender” making the decision there are a bunch of over worked underpaid grunts making these things happen and ultimately with luck it ends up on some middle managers desk to sign off on. None of these people really care about the details, all they care about is getting another file off there desk as long as its easy for them. If not they have a couple hundred more to work on. Give it a shot and see what happens but dont stand on ceremony. You are only fighting yourself and no one on the other side cares. If you like ti and the deal makes sense do it- if not dont. Do not make this personal its only business.
November 11, 2010 at 12:02 AM #630314sdrealtorParticipantIf its a short sale you are dealing with some lowly paid clerical worker who does not give a crap. There is no almighty “lender” making the decision there are a bunch of over worked underpaid grunts making these things happen and ultimately with luck it ends up on some middle managers desk to sign off on. None of these people really care about the details, all they care about is getting another file off there desk as long as its easy for them. If not they have a couple hundred more to work on. Give it a shot and see what happens but dont stand on ceremony. You are only fighting yourself and no one on the other side cares. If you like ti and the deal makes sense do it- if not dont. Do not make this personal its only business.
November 11, 2010 at 5:39 AM #629249scaredyclassicParticipanti wasn’t expecting the lender to pay; i was expecting one or both of the realtors to pay.
November 11, 2010 at 5:39 AM #629327scaredyclassicParticipanti wasn’t expecting the lender to pay; i was expecting one or both of the realtors to pay.
November 11, 2010 at 5:39 AM #629901scaredyclassicParticipanti wasn’t expecting the lender to pay; i was expecting one or both of the realtors to pay.
November 11, 2010 at 5:39 AM #630028scaredyclassicParticipanti wasn’t expecting the lender to pay; i was expecting one or both of the realtors to pay.
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