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December 18, 2009 at 6:57 PM #496325December 18, 2009 at 7:43 PM #495463CA renterParticipant
Josh,
TG has clearly spent many hours wisely pondering the best ways to meet women. I agree with his last post 100%.
James Bond…I like it! Makes me want to be a guy so I can try these techniques out. π They would definitely be successful.
Excellent, TG! Josh owes you a case of your favorite wine for that list. π
December 18, 2009 at 7:43 PM #495618CA renterParticipantJosh,
TG has clearly spent many hours wisely pondering the best ways to meet women. I agree with his last post 100%.
James Bond…I like it! Makes me want to be a guy so I can try these techniques out. π They would definitely be successful.
Excellent, TG! Josh owes you a case of your favorite wine for that list. π
December 18, 2009 at 7:43 PM #496002CA renterParticipantJosh,
TG has clearly spent many hours wisely pondering the best ways to meet women. I agree with his last post 100%.
James Bond…I like it! Makes me want to be a guy so I can try these techniques out. π They would definitely be successful.
Excellent, TG! Josh owes you a case of your favorite wine for that list. π
December 18, 2009 at 7:43 PM #496089CA renterParticipantJosh,
TG has clearly spent many hours wisely pondering the best ways to meet women. I agree with his last post 100%.
James Bond…I like it! Makes me want to be a guy so I can try these techniques out. π They would definitely be successful.
Excellent, TG! Josh owes you a case of your favorite wine for that list. π
December 18, 2009 at 7:43 PM #496330CA renterParticipantJosh,
TG has clearly spent many hours wisely pondering the best ways to meet women. I agree with his last post 100%.
James Bond…I like it! Makes me want to be a guy so I can try these techniques out. π They would definitely be successful.
Excellent, TG! Josh owes you a case of your favorite wine for that list. π
December 20, 2009 at 4:56 PM #495849barnaby33ParticipantTG is definitely an expert in this field. I would defer to his wisdom. Much of what he says I have understood intellectually but failed to internalize.
I thoroughly lack a posse. Part of the issue is that my friends by dint of hobbies are in many cases older. At least the friends that I interact with regularly. My college friends have in most cases moved away or moved away and into different phases of life.
urbanrealtor, no dis-respect received. I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I have sharp edges, but then so do most people worth getting to know. Anyone can appeal to the masses, just keep your abs tight your hair straight and STFU.
As to reasons why I am single, I’m reasonably well aware of them. I don’t feel it would enhance this thread at all to go into the minutae. Suffice it to say I have a checklist. Its longer than yours, shorter than many and I’m actually open minded about most things. I’m just quite vocal and very upfront about the ones that are deal killers.
My issue and the reason for the thread is not knowing who I am but in figuring out who I’m compatible with and ways to meet them. At least I think that is my current issue. I could be wrong.
Oh and urban its not so much that I’m lonely. I like being in a relationship. I’m not crying myself to sleep because I’m not, if you think that you are incorrect. I’ve never looked back at any of the relationships I’ve had and thought it was time wasted, but then, I’ve been lucky that way.
Josh
December 20, 2009 at 4:56 PM #496004barnaby33ParticipantTG is definitely an expert in this field. I would defer to his wisdom. Much of what he says I have understood intellectually but failed to internalize.
I thoroughly lack a posse. Part of the issue is that my friends by dint of hobbies are in many cases older. At least the friends that I interact with regularly. My college friends have in most cases moved away or moved away and into different phases of life.
urbanrealtor, no dis-respect received. I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I have sharp edges, but then so do most people worth getting to know. Anyone can appeal to the masses, just keep your abs tight your hair straight and STFU.
As to reasons why I am single, I’m reasonably well aware of them. I don’t feel it would enhance this thread at all to go into the minutae. Suffice it to say I have a checklist. Its longer than yours, shorter than many and I’m actually open minded about most things. I’m just quite vocal and very upfront about the ones that are deal killers.
My issue and the reason for the thread is not knowing who I am but in figuring out who I’m compatible with and ways to meet them. At least I think that is my current issue. I could be wrong.
Oh and urban its not so much that I’m lonely. I like being in a relationship. I’m not crying myself to sleep because I’m not, if you think that you are incorrect. I’ve never looked back at any of the relationships I’ve had and thought it was time wasted, but then, I’ve been lucky that way.
Josh
December 20, 2009 at 4:56 PM #496387barnaby33ParticipantTG is definitely an expert in this field. I would defer to his wisdom. Much of what he says I have understood intellectually but failed to internalize.
I thoroughly lack a posse. Part of the issue is that my friends by dint of hobbies are in many cases older. At least the friends that I interact with regularly. My college friends have in most cases moved away or moved away and into different phases of life.
urbanrealtor, no dis-respect received. I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I have sharp edges, but then so do most people worth getting to know. Anyone can appeal to the masses, just keep your abs tight your hair straight and STFU.
As to reasons why I am single, I’m reasonably well aware of them. I don’t feel it would enhance this thread at all to go into the minutae. Suffice it to say I have a checklist. Its longer than yours, shorter than many and I’m actually open minded about most things. I’m just quite vocal and very upfront about the ones that are deal killers.
My issue and the reason for the thread is not knowing who I am but in figuring out who I’m compatible with and ways to meet them. At least I think that is my current issue. I could be wrong.
Oh and urban its not so much that I’m lonely. I like being in a relationship. I’m not crying myself to sleep because I’m not, if you think that you are incorrect. I’ve never looked back at any of the relationships I’ve had and thought it was time wasted, but then, I’ve been lucky that way.
Josh
December 20, 2009 at 4:56 PM #496473barnaby33ParticipantTG is definitely an expert in this field. I would defer to his wisdom. Much of what he says I have understood intellectually but failed to internalize.
I thoroughly lack a posse. Part of the issue is that my friends by dint of hobbies are in many cases older. At least the friends that I interact with regularly. My college friends have in most cases moved away or moved away and into different phases of life.
urbanrealtor, no dis-respect received. I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I have sharp edges, but then so do most people worth getting to know. Anyone can appeal to the masses, just keep your abs tight your hair straight and STFU.
As to reasons why I am single, I’m reasonably well aware of them. I don’t feel it would enhance this thread at all to go into the minutae. Suffice it to say I have a checklist. Its longer than yours, shorter than many and I’m actually open minded about most things. I’m just quite vocal and very upfront about the ones that are deal killers.
My issue and the reason for the thread is not knowing who I am but in figuring out who I’m compatible with and ways to meet them. At least I think that is my current issue. I could be wrong.
Oh and urban its not so much that I’m lonely. I like being in a relationship. I’m not crying myself to sleep because I’m not, if you think that you are incorrect. I’ve never looked back at any of the relationships I’ve had and thought it was time wasted, but then, I’ve been lucky that way.
Josh
December 20, 2009 at 4:56 PM #496716barnaby33ParticipantTG is definitely an expert in this field. I would defer to his wisdom. Much of what he says I have understood intellectually but failed to internalize.
I thoroughly lack a posse. Part of the issue is that my friends by dint of hobbies are in many cases older. At least the friends that I interact with regularly. My college friends have in most cases moved away or moved away and into different phases of life.
urbanrealtor, no dis-respect received. I’m not the easiest person to get along with. I have sharp edges, but then so do most people worth getting to know. Anyone can appeal to the masses, just keep your abs tight your hair straight and STFU.
As to reasons why I am single, I’m reasonably well aware of them. I don’t feel it would enhance this thread at all to go into the minutae. Suffice it to say I have a checklist. Its longer than yours, shorter than many and I’m actually open minded about most things. I’m just quite vocal and very upfront about the ones that are deal killers.
My issue and the reason for the thread is not knowing who I am but in figuring out who I’m compatible with and ways to meet them. At least I think that is my current issue. I could be wrong.
Oh and urban its not so much that I’m lonely. I like being in a relationship. I’m not crying myself to sleep because I’m not, if you think that you are incorrect. I’ve never looked back at any of the relationships I’ve had and thought it was time wasted, but then, I’ve been lucky that way.
Josh
December 22, 2009 at 1:49 AM #496319CardiffBaseballParticipantWow, reading TG’s list, makes you realize sticking it out, no matter how depressing, is probably better in the long run (I mean for the non-single types thinking of splitting).
I simply can’t imagine doing any of the 1-5 with any passion other than knowing the end-game goal.
1. Like Barnaby, no real posse. People at work don’t hang out and most guys around me are married.
2. I don’t know I suppose of all the choices this might be the top choice of the Five. I’ve never “cruised”, but it sounds fun and you can hop on right here in SD or LA.
3. Just started a program with my son to get to 300 lb. deadlift, and 200 bench press which seems easy but I think my muscles have atrophied so it should take close to 2 months. We do this in the garage, and there is nothing ladylike about it. As a know-it-all type who doesn’t do anything without analysis paralysis, I’ve had my greatest weight loss and strength gains doing powerlifts. So doing Yoga or pilates is just not in my vocab. Probably spent too much time reading crossfit before getting off my arse and most are against that type of workout (though it’s where the chicks are). Not many women in my garage watching my son and I grunt.
4. If there is any shopping to be done, it’s almost always my wife. I loathe it, but I did go to Horton’s tonight and we dragged the kids out for our once a year family trip to the mall. (it’s almost that rare). Now with my diet I stop off for eggs and cuts of meat on my own.
5. Big parties and street fairs I never go to. In 5 years I’ve never once even attended on of our company Christmas parties. I did go down to the Encinitas street fair once.Wow until now I hadn’t thought about how little I have to offer.
– I’d have messed up credit if we split most likely (well scores are reasonable but load is too high)…
– I am overweight, hopefully for only a few more months. Now I do think at a svelte 195 or so I’d be one of those good looking 40 year olds but it sounds like that doesn’t matter too much
– Diet is severely restricted (meat, eggs, water, cheese) and not drinking wine or beer right now. No grains, no fruits or veggies. BORING for dating, I feel amazing but it’s awfully anti-social
– Picky about her political views (no politically active left-wingers). I mean to say I don’t care if my-lady is a lib if she is otherwise busy with life. I refer to going to meetings luncheons, conventions, etc. I love having dissenting friends, but as I don’t hang around spineless jellyfish politicians of any stripes I don’t want to be stuck going to some fund-raiser for a “progressive”. She can be a lib, but just not one who’s really into the activist stuff. (I am definitely not)
– Way too much time with my sons and their sports which is probably what drives Wife 1.0 nuts
– Listen to mostly heavy-metal/hard rock, which basically results in sausage-fests with a few bimbo dates. Very few women on the prowl.
– Wife 1.0 can’t get me to go to the “shows” mostly because I can’t bear to pay what a ticket costs compared to say a sporting event.In short there is really nothing interesting or compelling to offer the opposite sex, outside of having all of my teeth thanks to the TJ dentist. Should I turn gay? Naah same issues. Maybe if I got svelte I could be the “bull” for a cuckold couple or date hotwives only…
December 22, 2009 at 1:49 AM #496470CardiffBaseballParticipantWow, reading TG’s list, makes you realize sticking it out, no matter how depressing, is probably better in the long run (I mean for the non-single types thinking of splitting).
I simply can’t imagine doing any of the 1-5 with any passion other than knowing the end-game goal.
1. Like Barnaby, no real posse. People at work don’t hang out and most guys around me are married.
2. I don’t know I suppose of all the choices this might be the top choice of the Five. I’ve never “cruised”, but it sounds fun and you can hop on right here in SD or LA.
3. Just started a program with my son to get to 300 lb. deadlift, and 200 bench press which seems easy but I think my muscles have atrophied so it should take close to 2 months. We do this in the garage, and there is nothing ladylike about it. As a know-it-all type who doesn’t do anything without analysis paralysis, I’ve had my greatest weight loss and strength gains doing powerlifts. So doing Yoga or pilates is just not in my vocab. Probably spent too much time reading crossfit before getting off my arse and most are against that type of workout (though it’s where the chicks are). Not many women in my garage watching my son and I grunt.
4. If there is any shopping to be done, it’s almost always my wife. I loathe it, but I did go to Horton’s tonight and we dragged the kids out for our once a year family trip to the mall. (it’s almost that rare). Now with my diet I stop off for eggs and cuts of meat on my own.
5. Big parties and street fairs I never go to. In 5 years I’ve never once even attended on of our company Christmas parties. I did go down to the Encinitas street fair once.Wow until now I hadn’t thought about how little I have to offer.
– I’d have messed up credit if we split most likely (well scores are reasonable but load is too high)…
– I am overweight, hopefully for only a few more months. Now I do think at a svelte 195 or so I’d be one of those good looking 40 year olds but it sounds like that doesn’t matter too much
– Diet is severely restricted (meat, eggs, water, cheese) and not drinking wine or beer right now. No grains, no fruits or veggies. BORING for dating, I feel amazing but it’s awfully anti-social
– Picky about her political views (no politically active left-wingers). I mean to say I don’t care if my-lady is a lib if she is otherwise busy with life. I refer to going to meetings luncheons, conventions, etc. I love having dissenting friends, but as I don’t hang around spineless jellyfish politicians of any stripes I don’t want to be stuck going to some fund-raiser for a “progressive”. She can be a lib, but just not one who’s really into the activist stuff. (I am definitely not)
– Way too much time with my sons and their sports which is probably what drives Wife 1.0 nuts
– Listen to mostly heavy-metal/hard rock, which basically results in sausage-fests with a few bimbo dates. Very few women on the prowl.
– Wife 1.0 can’t get me to go to the “shows” mostly because I can’t bear to pay what a ticket costs compared to say a sporting event.In short there is really nothing interesting or compelling to offer the opposite sex, outside of having all of my teeth thanks to the TJ dentist. Should I turn gay? Naah same issues. Maybe if I got svelte I could be the “bull” for a cuckold couple or date hotwives only…
December 22, 2009 at 1:49 AM #496852CardiffBaseballParticipantWow, reading TG’s list, makes you realize sticking it out, no matter how depressing, is probably better in the long run (I mean for the non-single types thinking of splitting).
I simply can’t imagine doing any of the 1-5 with any passion other than knowing the end-game goal.
1. Like Barnaby, no real posse. People at work don’t hang out and most guys around me are married.
2. I don’t know I suppose of all the choices this might be the top choice of the Five. I’ve never “cruised”, but it sounds fun and you can hop on right here in SD or LA.
3. Just started a program with my son to get to 300 lb. deadlift, and 200 bench press which seems easy but I think my muscles have atrophied so it should take close to 2 months. We do this in the garage, and there is nothing ladylike about it. As a know-it-all type who doesn’t do anything without analysis paralysis, I’ve had my greatest weight loss and strength gains doing powerlifts. So doing Yoga or pilates is just not in my vocab. Probably spent too much time reading crossfit before getting off my arse and most are against that type of workout (though it’s where the chicks are). Not many women in my garage watching my son and I grunt.
4. If there is any shopping to be done, it’s almost always my wife. I loathe it, but I did go to Horton’s tonight and we dragged the kids out for our once a year family trip to the mall. (it’s almost that rare). Now with my diet I stop off for eggs and cuts of meat on my own.
5. Big parties and street fairs I never go to. In 5 years I’ve never once even attended on of our company Christmas parties. I did go down to the Encinitas street fair once.Wow until now I hadn’t thought about how little I have to offer.
– I’d have messed up credit if we split most likely (well scores are reasonable but load is too high)…
– I am overweight, hopefully for only a few more months. Now I do think at a svelte 195 or so I’d be one of those good looking 40 year olds but it sounds like that doesn’t matter too much
– Diet is severely restricted (meat, eggs, water, cheese) and not drinking wine or beer right now. No grains, no fruits or veggies. BORING for dating, I feel amazing but it’s awfully anti-social
– Picky about her political views (no politically active left-wingers). I mean to say I don’t care if my-lady is a lib if she is otherwise busy with life. I refer to going to meetings luncheons, conventions, etc. I love having dissenting friends, but as I don’t hang around spineless jellyfish politicians of any stripes I don’t want to be stuck going to some fund-raiser for a “progressive”. She can be a lib, but just not one who’s really into the activist stuff. (I am definitely not)
– Way too much time with my sons and their sports which is probably what drives Wife 1.0 nuts
– Listen to mostly heavy-metal/hard rock, which basically results in sausage-fests with a few bimbo dates. Very few women on the prowl.
– Wife 1.0 can’t get me to go to the “shows” mostly because I can’t bear to pay what a ticket costs compared to say a sporting event.In short there is really nothing interesting or compelling to offer the opposite sex, outside of having all of my teeth thanks to the TJ dentist. Should I turn gay? Naah same issues. Maybe if I got svelte I could be the “bull” for a cuckold couple or date hotwives only…
December 22, 2009 at 1:49 AM #496938CardiffBaseballParticipantWow, reading TG’s list, makes you realize sticking it out, no matter how depressing, is probably better in the long run (I mean for the non-single types thinking of splitting).
I simply can’t imagine doing any of the 1-5 with any passion other than knowing the end-game goal.
1. Like Barnaby, no real posse. People at work don’t hang out and most guys around me are married.
2. I don’t know I suppose of all the choices this might be the top choice of the Five. I’ve never “cruised”, but it sounds fun and you can hop on right here in SD or LA.
3. Just started a program with my son to get to 300 lb. deadlift, and 200 bench press which seems easy but I think my muscles have atrophied so it should take close to 2 months. We do this in the garage, and there is nothing ladylike about it. As a know-it-all type who doesn’t do anything without analysis paralysis, I’ve had my greatest weight loss and strength gains doing powerlifts. So doing Yoga or pilates is just not in my vocab. Probably spent too much time reading crossfit before getting off my arse and most are against that type of workout (though it’s where the chicks are). Not many women in my garage watching my son and I grunt.
4. If there is any shopping to be done, it’s almost always my wife. I loathe it, but I did go to Horton’s tonight and we dragged the kids out for our once a year family trip to the mall. (it’s almost that rare). Now with my diet I stop off for eggs and cuts of meat on my own.
5. Big parties and street fairs I never go to. In 5 years I’ve never once even attended on of our company Christmas parties. I did go down to the Encinitas street fair once.Wow until now I hadn’t thought about how little I have to offer.
– I’d have messed up credit if we split most likely (well scores are reasonable but load is too high)…
– I am overweight, hopefully for only a few more months. Now I do think at a svelte 195 or so I’d be one of those good looking 40 year olds but it sounds like that doesn’t matter too much
– Diet is severely restricted (meat, eggs, water, cheese) and not drinking wine or beer right now. No grains, no fruits or veggies. BORING for dating, I feel amazing but it’s awfully anti-social
– Picky about her political views (no politically active left-wingers). I mean to say I don’t care if my-lady is a lib if she is otherwise busy with life. I refer to going to meetings luncheons, conventions, etc. I love having dissenting friends, but as I don’t hang around spineless jellyfish politicians of any stripes I don’t want to be stuck going to some fund-raiser for a “progressive”. She can be a lib, but just not one who’s really into the activist stuff. (I am definitely not)
– Way too much time with my sons and their sports which is probably what drives Wife 1.0 nuts
– Listen to mostly heavy-metal/hard rock, which basically results in sausage-fests with a few bimbo dates. Very few women on the prowl.
– Wife 1.0 can’t get me to go to the “shows” mostly because I can’t bear to pay what a ticket costs compared to say a sporting event.In short there is really nothing interesting or compelling to offer the opposite sex, outside of having all of my teeth thanks to the TJ dentist. Should I turn gay? Naah same issues. Maybe if I got svelte I could be the “bull” for a cuckold couple or date hotwives only…
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