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December 15, 2009 at 7:17 PM #495302December 15, 2009 at 7:38 PM #494442
Ricechex
Participant[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]
Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?
Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.
December 15, 2009 at 7:38 PM #494599Participant[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]
Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?
Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.
December 15, 2009 at 7:38 PM #494986Participant[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]
Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?
Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.
December 15, 2009 at 7:38 PM #495074Participant[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]
Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?
Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.
December 15, 2009 at 7:38 PM #495312Participant[quote=scaredycat]all kinds of women “claim’ to liekcertain sorts of guys, but then become attracted to dominant, confident, not necessarily nice guys. guys–do NOT believe anything a woman says about being attracted to guys who are NICE. it’s a lie! a trap! a test! without an edge in this world, you are doomed. be more like davelj. strong confident beats niceness any day of the week, regardles sof what women say. forget the gold digger remarks. it’s a red herring. nice guys do NOT do well in the dating market. do your own test. see what women go for. don’t act nice just because you might be nice.[/quote]
Scaredy–you always crack me up. What about this combo–smart, funny, and nice. Naturally funny guys (NOT forced funny, or think they are funny, but aren’t) also get the ladies. Wasn’t talking about roll over and be walked on “nice.” That would be passive and that is not attractive. What about charisma? Likeability?
Perhaps it is age. Twenty something women may mistake arrogance for confidence. Burned a few times, by the time they are in their 30’s may have a new perspective.
December 15, 2009 at 8:45 PM #494457UCGal
ParticipantI have to agree with Ricechex… Funny guys who make those around them laugh get the girls. And nice (as in not overtly selfish) is a GOOD quality. Usually these guys are confident because in general, people like them… because they’re likable.
It’s not about looks. It’s not about money. It’s not about uber-achievement. It’s about whether it’s fun to hang out with the person.
December 15, 2009 at 8:45 PM #494614ParticipantI have to agree with Ricechex… Funny guys who make those around them laugh get the girls. And nice (as in not overtly selfish) is a GOOD quality. Usually these guys are confident because in general, people like them… because they’re likable.
It’s not about looks. It’s not about money. It’s not about uber-achievement. It’s about whether it’s fun to hang out with the person.
December 15, 2009 at 8:45 PM #495000ParticipantI have to agree with Ricechex… Funny guys who make those around them laugh get the girls. And nice (as in not overtly selfish) is a GOOD quality. Usually these guys are confident because in general, people like them… because they’re likable.
It’s not about looks. It’s not about money. It’s not about uber-achievement. It’s about whether it’s fun to hang out with the person.
December 15, 2009 at 8:45 PM #495088ParticipantI have to agree with Ricechex… Funny guys who make those around them laugh get the girls. And nice (as in not overtly selfish) is a GOOD quality. Usually these guys are confident because in general, people like them… because they’re likable.
It’s not about looks. It’s not about money. It’s not about uber-achievement. It’s about whether it’s fun to hang out with the person.
December 15, 2009 at 8:45 PM #495327ParticipantI have to agree with Ricechex… Funny guys who make those around them laugh get the girls. And nice (as in not overtly selfish) is a GOOD quality. Usually these guys are confident because in general, people like them… because they’re likable.
It’s not about looks. It’s not about money. It’s not about uber-achievement. It’s about whether it’s fun to hang out with the person.
December 15, 2009 at 9:39 PM #494471scaredyclassic
Participantok, ricechex. funny is necessary but not sufficient. think about it; froma guy’s perspective, you know when he gets more women? when he ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!! that’s because he’s confident, he’s having sex, he isn’t nice, he doesn’t need anything, he’s more aloof, cooler, more confident and usually teases and messes with other women because he deson’t need anything from them.
take away many guy’s girlfriends, and they smell faintly of desperation. they try to act nice, ingratiating etc.
disaster.
act like you don’t need someone, and they’re interested.
act nice and available–no good. it is a fundamental truth of life.
the house I just made an offer on? I WANT IT WAY MORE now that I’m a backup.
same with people
December 15, 2009 at 9:39 PM #494630Participantok, ricechex. funny is necessary but not sufficient. think about it; froma guy’s perspective, you know when he gets more women? when he ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!! that’s because he’s confident, he’s having sex, he isn’t nice, he doesn’t need anything, he’s more aloof, cooler, more confident and usually teases and messes with other women because he deson’t need anything from them.
take away many guy’s girlfriends, and they smell faintly of desperation. they try to act nice, ingratiating etc.
disaster.
act like you don’t need someone, and they’re interested.
act nice and available–no good. it is a fundamental truth of life.
the house I just made an offer on? I WANT IT WAY MORE now that I’m a backup.
same with people
December 15, 2009 at 9:39 PM #495016Participantok, ricechex. funny is necessary but not sufficient. think about it; froma guy’s perspective, you know when he gets more women? when he ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!! that’s because he’s confident, he’s having sex, he isn’t nice, he doesn’t need anything, he’s more aloof, cooler, more confident and usually teases and messes with other women because he deson’t need anything from them.
take away many guy’s girlfriends, and they smell faintly of desperation. they try to act nice, ingratiating etc.
disaster.
act like you don’t need someone, and they’re interested.
act nice and available–no good. it is a fundamental truth of life.
the house I just made an offer on? I WANT IT WAY MORE now that I’m a backup.
same with people
December 15, 2009 at 9:39 PM #495103Participantok, ricechex. funny is necessary but not sufficient. think about it; froma guy’s perspective, you know when he gets more women? when he ALREADY HAS A GIRLFRIEND!!!! that’s because he’s confident, he’s having sex, he isn’t nice, he doesn’t need anything, he’s more aloof, cooler, more confident and usually teases and messes with other women because he deson’t need anything from them.
take away many guy’s girlfriends, and they smell faintly of desperation. they try to act nice, ingratiating etc.
disaster.
act like you don’t need someone, and they’re interested.
act nice and available–no good. it is a fundamental truth of life.
the house I just made an offer on? I WANT IT WAY MORE now that I’m a backup.
same with people
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