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July 16, 2006 at 9:10 AM #28484July 16, 2006 at 9:50 AM #28487barnaby33Participant
Ok SDR, you first! Its not a hypothetical question. I try to live my life exactly that way. I have VERY few secrets. A fact my girlfriend does not always like. It has its repercussions.
The way we view others is determined at least as much by what we don’t know as what we do.
Josh
July 16, 2006 at 10:09 AM #28488LookoutBelowParticipantOh myyy…..you seem to take some kind of morose pleasure in snooping around other peoples information. If you wouldnt ask somebody outright and to their face the questions you have regarding their TAX situation, then you should NOT be spying on them on line.
They used to do something similar to this is the former Soviet Russia and in Iran. You being admittingly of Iranian descent,(in one of your previous posts) you of all people should be ashamed of these domestic spying techniques your using here.
سازمان اطلاعات و امنیت کشور
This is NOT indicative of real estate health in San Diego, this closely resembles perverted activity.
Rich, please moderate this topic and DO NOT allow this type of thing to be the downfall of an otherwise good site.
Poway Seller…Shame on you for making this thread.
July 16, 2006 at 11:06 AM #28495sdrealtorParticipantJosh
Quite simply, it is none of your business and frankly I could care less how much you make as it was a rhetorical question. It’s not about secrets, its about what someone wants to share. If you like to share thats fine. Many others do not feel the same way and its neither right nor wrong, its just their personal preferences to which they are entitled. I don’t care how much my neighbor makes or whether they paid their taxes on time. I care whether they are nice, friendly and decent people. That is my sole criteria for associating with people. You could be a one eyed, one eared flying purple people eater and I’d welcome you into my home as long as you were a good person and not interested in the demise of others.July 16, 2006 at 11:08 AM #28497BugsParticipantAhh, come on.
The reason most of us participate in these forums is to expand our understanding of our world. By expressing our different opinions we influence each other and in turn are influenced by what we take in from each other. I know that I have been influenced by the opinions expressed by everyone here, including those with whom I may disagree.
I don’t see anything wrong with raising a question or issue as long as we’re willing to discuss it in civil terms. It’s when we push the boundaries of civil behavior that the conversations veer off into unreasonable tangents. I think if we applied the “shopping cart” rule to our comments we’d never have some of the emotional dustups that seem to crop up here.
I highly doubt that PS saw her line of reasoning in the light that I cast it in my comments. For all I know she still may not see it that way. That’s okay because this here’s America. What I do know is that my opinion on the subject has been influenced by our discussion just as I hope has happened for others. To that extent I’m glad she brought the subject up. I’d even say that if it wasn’t her, it would have eventually been someone else.
July 16, 2006 at 12:07 PM #28503PeaceParticipantThis exchange reminds me of “the rat smells the cheese”
PS happened to find this PUBLIC record online and shared it with us; of note is that her discovery resulted in a compassionate response wondering if one of her neighbors was under duress.
I happen to have two old ladies (both in mid-eighties) who live two houses down who really have no business living on their own, but who am I to challenge them? We help them as much as we can without getting into their business.
Recently I brought up the subject of reverse mortgages to see if they would be interested, mainly to see if they are living so meagerly due to real money issues or if they were just tight – you never know with old people.
Turned out they were very interested in reverse mortgages and I sent off for information that I will go over with them.
But to the point – I was very relieved to see that they are not behind on their property taxes, so I can assume their financial status is not in critical condition. And that information will affect the way I “help” them decide about their best option when reviewing the reverse mortgages.
Another way I intend to use that PUBLIC information will be to check the tax status of the houses that surround any house I would be interested in buying, I think it is important to know that potential neighbors are not in financial straits.
Just like a lot of people were against Megan’s Law and that information being available on the internet – any public information should be available to the masses, not just a few to their own advantage. I’ll be checking the sexual predators website before I buy too.
The point being that just because you see this PUBLIC information as a way to infringe on other peoples’ privacy doesn’t mean that’s the way most people use it.July 16, 2006 at 12:17 PM #28505anxvarietyParticipantPeople proably figure their debt delinquincies are semi-private, and in the past they could just re-fi if they couldn’t afford to pay off their debt.. at some point people are going have to swallow pride and file for bankruptcy… or cut their losses and move somewhere they can afford..surely people won’t take the pride swallowing in stride, so what is going to be the scapegoat? What is going to be the trendy thing to blame here? If everyone starts blaming the same things, it will seem like they are victims of an outside force rather than victims of irresponsibility and greed…
July 16, 2006 at 12:38 PM #28507powaysellerParticipantThank you for sharing your views on this topic. I wonder why the County Assessor makes this available for us to see?
Anyway, I find the County Assessor tax payment site a useful gauge for the real estate downturn, just as my subscription to foreclosure.com. I find this data and stories (even suicide stories) helpful in assessing the economy and housing market.
July 16, 2006 at 1:14 PM #28508sdrealtorParticipantPeace,
You put forth many good uses of this data which no one could argue with. However, this is different from individuals satisfying guilty pleasures with this data with no use other than personal enjoyment at others distress.Speaking of personal enjoyment…time to jump in the pool out back!
July 16, 2006 at 1:30 PM #28509BugsParticipantPeace,
Your comments are duly noted and I agree with what you’re saying. Again, I’d like to point out that my intent here was to discourage the voyeur factor, which was already acknowledged by one participant in this thread. I’m in no way advocating we not watch out for our neighbors’ interests even when we’re in a position to do so.
It’s just like when we were throwing names and complete addresses up in a couple of the previous threads and people were making comments about the individuals. I doubt that anyone had a malicious intent in that, they probably just hadn’t thought it all the way through. The discussion that followed that was intended to get people to consider that line of discussion in a different light. It may not seem this way, but I was just offering additional input, not trying to exercise the jackboot of censorship.
July 16, 2006 at 1:39 PM #28510powaysellerParticipantBugs and sdr, it comes back to this: why does the County Assessor publish this information online, making it so easy for all to see? Anything recorded with the County Assessor is free for all to see: tax payments, tax liens, purchase price of house, % downpayment, type of mortgage. If this is bothersome, write a letter to the County Assessor, outlining your privacy concerns, instead of telling us not to look at it.
July 16, 2006 at 6:25 PM #28535sdrealtorParticipantThe fact that you can do something doesnt mean its justified.
July 16, 2006 at 7:08 PM #28538powaysellerParticipantWe have to agree to disagree.
July 16, 2006 at 8:00 PM #28542sdrealtorParticipantagreed 😉
September 29, 2007 at 4:57 PM #86375stansdParticipantI hope this doesn’t resurrect a sore subject, but I want to take another look in my area and see how things look now. Does anybody have an updated link where you can see who is delinquent on property taxes.
Stan
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