Affairs of the heart…

[cooperthedog]

Why do you question his interest in you after he professes it and more importantly, would simply loosening the purse strings allay your doubts?

You must care about whatever money he has just a *little* bit. What if the guy makes minimum wage (or is a real estate “investor”), and can’t afford a really nice date?

Also, what you describe almost sounds like you require some sort of earnest money to be put up in the form of a nice date – “proving” his interest in you is “real”.

I think some women are conditioned to expect a lavish date as a sign of how much a suitor cares for them. If you’re of that mindset consider the relativeness of the “nice date”. For example, if your suitor was poor, a really nice date could be construed as a real sacrifice on his part to please you. Assuming the gentlemen has alot of money, what would a really nice date prove? Maybe casual dates are his way of making a meaningful connection with you.

If he really does care for you, he will have learned enough about you from your past conversations to eventually come up with something special, regardless of how much it costs.

As for the prenup, I would consider it as another form of insurance for my assets. At the outset, no one plans for their home to burn down, crash their car, or get a divorce. Not having insurance in the first two instances is considered very foolish, why not the third?

[Arty]

I am single never married 32 years old, and here is my answer.

If I ever going to get married, a prenup must be signed. I will probably not mentioned on the 4th date. However, I will probably bring it up when it is getting serious. No point of wasting each other’s time.

My logic: I have a house in my name fully paid. Why do I want to have someone comes in and has the right to claim half of it especially in the worse senario that its a short marriage without children. I have decent amount of cash, stocks, and Roth IRA why I have to sign half away. In addition, prenup doesn’t have to be all about money. I will probably put into some rules about living together. Of course, you should find this out before you get married, but nothing beats sitting down and writing them down.

Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).

[Arty]

I am single never married 32 years old, and here is my answer.

If I ever going to get married, a prenup must be signed. I will probably not mentioned on the 4th date. However, I will probably bring it up when it is getting serious. No point of wasting each other’s time.

My logic: I have a house in my name fully paid. Why do I want to have someone comes in and has the right to claim half of it especially in the worse senario that its a short marriage without children. I have decent amount of cash, stocks, and Roth IRA why I have to sign half away. In addition, prenup doesn’t have to be all about money. I will probably put into some rules about living together. Of course, you should find this out before you get married, but nothing beats sitting down and writing them down.

Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).

[Arty]

I am single never married 32 years old, and here is my answer.

If I ever going to get married, a prenup must be signed. I will probably not mentioned on the 4th date. However, I will probably bring it up when it is getting serious. No point of wasting each other’s time.

My logic: I have a house in my name fully paid. Why do I want to have someone comes in and has the right to claim half of it especially in the worse senario that its a short marriage without children. I have decent amount of cash, stocks, and Roth IRA why I have to sign half away. In addition, prenup doesn’t have to be all about money. I will probably put into some rules about living together. Of course, you should find this out before you get married, but nothing beats sitting down and writing them down.

Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).

[Arty]

I am single never married 32 years old, and here is my answer.

If I ever going to get married, a prenup must be signed. I will probably not mentioned on the 4th date. However, I will probably bring it up when it is getting serious. No point of wasting each other’s time.

My logic: I have a house in my name fully paid. Why do I want to have someone comes in and has the right to claim half of it especially in the worse senario that its a short marriage without children. I have decent amount of cash, stocks, and Roth IRA why I have to sign half away. In addition, prenup doesn’t have to be all about money. I will probably put into some rules about living together. Of course, you should find this out before you get married, but nothing beats sitting down and writing them down.

Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).

[Arty]

I am single never married 32 years old, and here is my answer.

If I ever going to get married, a prenup must be signed. I will probably not mentioned on the 4th date. However, I will probably bring it up when it is getting serious. No point of wasting each other’s time.

My logic: I have a house in my name fully paid. Why do I want to have someone comes in and has the right to claim half of it especially in the worse senario that its a short marriage without children. I have decent amount of cash, stocks, and Roth IRA why I have to sign half away. In addition, prenup doesn’t have to be all about money. I will probably put into some rules about living together. Of course, you should find this out before you get married, but nothing beats sitting down and writing them down.

Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).

[Anonymous]

Arty: “Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).”

Let’s assume for a minute that you are serious; this is a great way to get a nasty STD! The women who allow this are stupid. Period. I don’t allow this behavior because I don’t have to.

Any man in a relationship with me will understand that I’m am the only female he’ll be getting his milk from.

[Anonymous]

Arty: “Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).”

Let’s assume for a minute that you are serious; this is a great way to get a nasty STD! The women who allow this are stupid. Period. I don’t allow this behavior because I don’t have to.

Any man in a relationship with me will understand that I’m am the only female he’ll be getting his milk from.

[Anonymous]

Arty: “Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).”

Let’s assume for a minute that you are serious; this is a great way to get a nasty STD! The women who allow this are stupid. Period. I don’t allow this behavior because I don’t have to.

Any man in a relationship with me will understand that I’m am the only female he’ll be getting his milk from.

[Anonymous]

Arty: “Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).”

Let’s assume for a minute that you are serious; this is a great way to get a nasty STD! The women who allow this are stupid. Period. I don’t allow this behavior because I don’t have to.

Any man in a relationship with me will understand that I’m am the only female he’ll be getting his milk from.

[Anonymous]

Arty: “Personally, I do have to ask other guys: Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If you don’t buy the cow, you can have milk from many different cows with many different flavors (you know what I mean :P).”

Let’s assume for a minute that you are serious; this is a great way to get a nasty STD! The women who allow this are stupid. Period. I don’t allow this behavior because I don’t have to.

Any man in a relationship with me will understand that I’m am the only female he’ll be getting his milk from.

[davelj]

Marion: “So in following your plan, I will have effectively changed my profession to that of a hooker.”

I might substitute the word “changed” with “defined.” But reasonable people can disagree.

[davelj]

Marion: “So in following your plan, I will have effectively changed my profession to that of a hooker.”

I might substitute the word “changed” with “defined.” But reasonable people can disagree.

[davelj]

Marion: “So in following your plan, I will have effectively changed my profession to that of a hooker.”

I might substitute the word “changed” with “defined.” But reasonable people can disagree.

[davelj]

Marion: “So in following your plan, I will have effectively changed my profession to that of a hooker.”

I might substitute the word “changed” with “defined.” But reasonable people can disagree.

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