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(1) There’s reputable research stating that women are actually MORE interested in sex than men.
(2) I’ve met quite a few women who weren’t shy about expressing their interest. They weren’t “we need a contract for everything” overly political over-thinkers either. Made things much, much easier — I’ve found the nebulousness and need to play games to be more irritating than fun. Nothing better than a woman who can express what she wants without playing head games.
Interesting, despite the US’s reputation for forwardness, white/American women tend to be more coy than others. I think it’s partly due to US media that tells people that the man has to chase, the woman has to be hard to get.