You aren’t wrong that this is contemptible behavior, but day someone dies is not the day to speak up. If you don’t like the guy, just shut-up. Just because you have a thought doesn’t mean we all want to hear it.
OK. We get it. You don’t like guys being mean to their kids. What a novel and unexpected opinion. Most of us don’t either. Stating that opinion at this time doesn’t accomplish anything except make you look like an insensitive ass.