Why didn’t the entitled brat just identify himself and show his badge as required by law? Was he too “good” to show his badge? And, BTW, being an arrogant, entitled, whiny bitch isn’t a crime. It’s something that public-facing employees have to deal with on a regular basis, without violence.
Just because a cop chose his profession doesn’t actually entitle him to protection from rudeness. Quite the contrary: if he can’t take it, he should quit and find another job that’s more suitable to his temperament.
Sounds like it was the meeting of two entitled, arrogant people, but as the public employee on the job, he should not have aggravated the situation. Lastly, if he really thought she was grabbing for his gun, he was a blithering idiot. 15 seconds later, he reached inside the car and bent over her to unbuckle her seatbelt — not a smart move if he actually thought that she was a threat.