Where I seem to disagree with a lot of you guys is that while the description came from Marion I tend to agree with her, that this guy should be trying a little harder. Certainly before he drops something like Pre-nup. Poindexter. I am not bashing it’s possible the guy has been wronged, but that isn’t her problem to worry about.
I don’t see gold-digging as a motivator here. I think most women want a guy to at least get his ass up and got to work, and hope he makes a decent salary. I don’t think they are all looking to ditch their guy for the one on the next higher rung of the socioeconomic ladder. Comfort, security, doesn’t always mean wealth. True gold-diggers do this kind of thing I just don’t think most women on the dating scene are that way.