when does someone “become” hetero? 2/ 4/ 12? kind of a dopey question, isn’t it? sexuality is something that develops, yoou don’t start out a little hetero machine. The problem with your point of view, as your religion has revealed unto you, is that if all this gay-ness is just a “choice’, then they would be entitled to no more governmental protection than people who choose to eat crappy food or make other lifestyle choices. if, ont he other hand, it goes to the core of who they are, then, well, maybe, theyought to be taken seriously and not just “reprogrammed” to make the correct choice so they can get to go to heaven with all the other correctly-orientated people in your church. You ahve to understand, this hetero lifestyle thing is not as simple as you; it’s complicated. why do you doubt your kids are gay? because they go to church? because you’ve kept them unexposed to gayness? because they profess to be intereste din girls. because they appear”normal” to you. When did you first realize they weren’t gay? 2? 4? at birth?