Whatever you do KEV, get unstuck. Don’t go around being presentable and moping and thinking about ways to find the perfect one. Get a couple or ladies of interest and keep your eye out for more, not necessarily sexual conquest, though that’s ok. , just not the focus, it will take care of itself. but just get out there with women who are available. If they are not take them away from somebody.Have you said Hi or Hello or what’s up hot stuff to anyone that caught your eye? Come back and talk to us about THEM not your EX.