WTF-I would love for you to explain to the 14 year old boy that is tormented/beaten at school how he chose to be gay. Aren’t you a school psychologist or something? VERY SCARY that there are parents like you…how are you teaching your children to be kind and compassionate people? You are what is wrong with today’s society!
Sorry everyone for the harsh words…”
Waiting patiently, my humor can be biting at times. Right now, I’m not counseling a 14-year-old gay boy. I’m interacting with adults on a real estate blog.
I don’t minimize anyone’s pain. When I’m counseling someone in pain, I do everything I can to help them. The gay orientation issue is not as simple as you think; it’s complicated.
For you and others like you who believe homosexuality is something that just happens, when does someone become gay? Is there a “gay gene? If so, what causes it? When does the transformation take place? Is it when we’re 2? 4? Or are we born this way?
I haven’t accepted the theory that the 14-year-old boy who is in a lot of pain because he is gay, feels he is gay, or leads a gay lifestyle was born this way. I don’t believe it’s as simple as that. You have to understand that there are other things beside professional training that influence a person’s beliefs.