This post is probably the first of many similar ones to come. I had a relative recently hint at either her and her kids staying with me or just a teenage son. I just said, “well these are my concerns/expectations but it is not out of the question”. Haven’t heard about it since.I guess those concerns did not jibe with expectations for my wife and I that I would probably consider unfair. Have boundaries for sure. They will leave sooner or the experience will turnout to work out at least O.K. for all because the situation has some harmony. Obviously, if someone is in need they will at least be able to pretend that they will cooperate with reasonable demands,even if they are stern, while in another persons house.