This is not in reply to PinrBoy’s question. Just info on the general topic. My daughter and I take turns babysitting my Dad periodically and taking him out on Sunday to give my Mom, his nurse, slave and caregiver a break. Her break is when she gets to have her caregiver take her grocery shopping. He has some dementia. But he is good natured about it fortunately – at least so far. Over 10 years ago I insisted they get long term health care insurance. She qualified. He did not. A caregiver comes to their apt 2x’s per week.
If he qualifies as 100% disabled from the navy (front lines of D-Day) he can go into the “Old Soldiers Home” as he calls it. That is where he chooses to go. I check all their meds online to make sure there is no problems combining them. Yes the amount of work escalates. We all do what we can.