Thanks PW,
Your question is tough because I actually did most of the work myself w/o pay(that and my new blogging addiction are why it is taking so long). I also drew my plans and put them through plan check. I did most of the site work with rented equipment. The house is 2300 square feet, built on a stepped crawlspace foundation. It has two large decks and a nice integral front porch. I facilitated the work of every trade that I did hire, and even did or supervised portions of those trades. I arranged and managed all the materials except those of the stucco sub. The prices given to me for the HVAC, roof(30 yr. asphalt),tile, stucco and drywall and fire sprinklers were very good.I paid a friend 4k to help me frame the exterior walls, subfloor and get the trusses up so framing cost were around 30k labor and materials.
The total expense is around 150k plus an additional 20k for a well, water storage and pressurization system and septic, which I installed(the well driller put the hole in the ground). I will spend another 20k on hardscape.There is no garage as I will do without or build a detached garage or shop in the future.Hope that is useful for something.