Sorry gang, been busy lately and I am late to this party. This whole thread is suspicious, I think my good friend and former boss is pretending to be Marion just to get me to write more since she complained recenlty that my posts are sparce lately. It’s too obvious, lives in Murrieta just a few miles away, has a deadbeat out of state ex who wont be slashing my tires, sounds hot, can cook, probably mid thirties to early forties, long dark hair, I feel like a mouse staring at the cheese on a moustrap thinking “cheese, my favorite, no wait, this is too perfect, who puts a perfectly good piece of cheese on the floor?” Other than the fit, size six part (built for comfort not speed is more my style, Tg likes the curves) there’s nothing to convince me that this isn’t a setup. O.K. I’ll bite.
On the off chance that marion is real, I am ashamed of my fellow testicle owners who are lambasting this woman for seeking money. What kind of a man moves to a state that is nowhere near his children. There’s a perfectly good way to avoid child support, change your life to have your kids at least half of the time. Real men raise their own children, anyone else isn’t qualified to drink with me. Almost every social ill can be traced back to men who spawn and move on. I read the posts of those who have sympathy for their bretheren who pay hefty child support bills but you only have half the story. I know those guys too and they ask me why I pay nothing, the secret, get the kids. Don’t just get them, parent them, do homework with them every night, never get a babysitter on Friday night, just hang with them. Never let them meet the latest love interest or even know about her, miss every social event, wedding, party, etc. just to be a parent. Lose every girlfriend because you won’t talk on the phone while you with your kids and you won’t run off for the weekend. Make less money, miss promotions because soccer practice is more important. The point is, make sacrifices to be the best dad you can be, you signed on the dotted line, now honor that. Go Kramer v. Kramer on her ass and get half if not more of their time and don’t just sit there while you have them like it is an obligation, it should be the part you look forward to. Do that and no Judge will take them away and you wont pay a dime. Better yet, they will actually be normal kids. Divorce doesn’t screw kids up, selfish parents do.
I’ve offered my buddies assistance in getting their kids and eliminating child support but I have yet to meet one who didn’t back out once I told them that they can’t take off to vegas every other weekend with their new girlfriend that is half their age, that they wont see Vegas or twenty year olds naked for years, that’s where they start to twitch and I start to realize that they just want to be victims and complain about the money, screw em!!!
I am not on this soapbox looking for sympathy, I like getting a new girlfriend every two months, about the time they grow tired of being second fiddle i grow tired of them, it’s symbiotic.
Marion,I’m afraid the money is going to end but you will get a judgement and at some point you will get paid, the reality is that his line of work is over and it sounds like he jumped on the bandwagon with few skills and is exactly who will be shaken out. The birthday inflatable jumper business is not a road paved with gold either, you may have to start planning now on making it on your own but in the end you will be happier that you did and your kids will be proud of you even if Dr. Laura isn’t.
P.S. I do specialize in consoling divorcees and attending to their needs, so when the pressures seem to be too much to bear, you let ole TG know, he’s always here to help. I’m like a superhero that way.
