So by the time you get to later choices it feels like there’s no real choice. Your future choices become so constrained that you are no longer really choosing. You have a baby, you can choose from many brands of diapers or even cloth. But your choice is constrained in the sense that you are going to be choosing. But the further along you get the more your choices are forced.
I’m just making this shit up as I go along I’m not sure if this is true.