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I think it is important to look at it both ways because what one person might perceive as pushy another person might see as proactive.
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Heh, most things in life are based on how things are perceived or expected…
I always found it funny how if a girl is interested in some guy and if he hung around or contacted her or whatever, he’d be considered caring but if she didn’t like him at all or found him gross, he’d be labeled a stalker.
Anyhow, unfortunately, like you say, I agree that’s just how real estate is sorta done. 10% of the agents probably have like 90% of the deals and people do whatever to put food on the table.
This is similar to financial advice where they are mostly sales people who don’t have much of a clue a lot of times…