I don’t think I am asking for too much, am I? I just don’t know much about the rest of San Diego except UTC, Carmel Valley, Penasquitos, RB. There must be areas that satisfy those things, esp. school district. It can’t be all that bad.[/quote]
No, it’s not all that bad. You really should get out and investigate for yourself. You may find that the area is or isn’t acceptable once you’ve laid eyes on it.
Chula Vista is more diverse than it gets credit for. Sunbow and Rancho Del Rey/Terra Nova (91910/91911) are pretty nice “middle class” areas. I currently see three 2,200 + sq ft houses listed in the $400s in Sunbow on Redfin.
Moving farther east (91914) there is Rolling Hills Ranch and San Miguel Ranch. Here you find fairly new or new construction. The area is pretty quiet but, farther away from freeway (non-toll road)access.
The schools ratings vary but, there are some pretty good ones in there. I think the key for those with children is to be east of the 805.
You may even want to consider the Bonita/Sunnyside area, just north of Rancho Del Rey. There are some pretty nice areas there too and a little closer to work.
Please go see for yourself. You may be pleasantly surprised or at the very least, you’ll confirm the area isn’t for you.