[quote=scaredycat]basically, jpinb, you always have the leverage of being miserable. most guys cannot tolerate having amiserable woman around.[/quote]
But how can either party be happy? I mean, why coerce someone into doing something they don’t want to do? I envision resentment. I just don’t understand why a woman would have to manipulate some guy to having a kid. That doesn’t seem like a good, solid foundation for a happy and harmonious relationship. I also don’t know why a guy would allow or tolerate or accept this behavior and go along w/it.
