[quote=scaredycat]1. is it possiblet hat people in general weren’t designed to be married for long periods?
2. When is it time to pack it in?
3. i dont know[/quote]
Scaredy: I saw an interesting interview with a socio-anthropologist and he had spent his career looking at marriage, monogamy and relationships in modern and pre-industrial cultures. According to him, the average relationship in many pre-industrial cultures only lasts about four years, which was the period of time necessary to bring a child forth and out of the toddler stage.
Following the logic that a man’s biological instinct is to spread his seed as far and wide as possible, that seemed to make sense to me. Do your thing and then on to the next mate and so on and so forth.