Prior to getting married make sure you are absolutely and totally CRAZY about your partner, anything less and you would be a fool to marry him/her.
As I said earlier way too many people are willing to settle.
If a woman wants children, is now 34 and realizes that time is running out, settles and marries some bloke that she thinks is a nice guy but does not truly want him or is attracted to him… then years later tells him to fly off, then is it fair?
Women know that if they settle now they can get children then later on they can always divorce if it doesn’t turn out well and get a good settlement and good alimony as well.. a win win situation.
I hear so much about men “wasting” a woman’s valuable fertile years but what about the above situation where women settle and in the end ruin a man’s life?