perhaps. perhaps i just need a new accountant. whata botut hat cliche about ina marriage, each side gives 100%? I always felt that cliche was dub? how can each side give everything? I still think it’s dumb, but it may be true on some level. if one side says no to the last kid, then that side is deciding, and ther eis no actual compromise, because no actual compromise is possible. it’s a binary decision — yes/no. Why should there necessarily have to be two affirmatives? How is that giving 100% On the other hand, I don’t think I beleive the majority of what i’m wriitng. But I feel it.