[quote=outtamojo]”Most people who want to buy in SD and raise a family do not care about the beach (or the freaking weather)”
<-------opinion, not fact- especially in my case.[/quote]
Definitely opinion, not fact, especially for me too. I tried to find jobs in other cities. Went there for interviews and couldn't wait to get home to SD. I can't leave this weather, no matter how much I try.
BTW, you ask for examples of house <$225k, here's one:
http://www.redfin.com/CA/Chula-Vista/398-Montcalm-St-91911/home/6188766
The schools are alright in this area. Not the best but not the worse either, just average. Crime rate isn't all horrible either: http://www.clrsearch.com/91911_Demographics/Crime_Statistics.
At $130k, if you can scrape together $26k for the down payment, your monthly payment is only $526-550, depending on interest rate. I think you can afford that on single income working minimum wage job.