On the other hand if you catch people at a strangely desperate life moment you just might be luckyvenough to snare another soul for the Lord. Both Matthew and mark agree that Jesus said “follow me and I will make you fishers of men”. That’s a central duty and it’s definitely not live and let live. Get some more fish hooked, reel Em in, serve Em up to the Lord.
The unsaved are like fish. Dead eyes swimming mindlessly in a sea oof sin. But once hooked by the Lord you get to be something new and completely different. Awesome.
Rudeness requires a certain intent. Christian converters are just kind of pitying at best or oblivious at worst to other possible narratives of how reality works.