of course it was only normal to want to touch that little girl at that specific time and place. If I did to that little girl today what i wanted to do back then, I’d be serving a lengthy prison term.
of course, that little girl doesn’t exist anymore, she’s all grown, I suppose, or perhaps dead. Anyway, she was. As was I.
So my desire was “normal” at the time, but only because of the happenstance that we were the same age. That same desire for that same girl, but emanating from my old, decrepit self, is decidedly less normal and far more rare than homosexuality.
So my point is, I think, that even heterosexual longings that may be normal at a speciifc time and place for sepcific male-female couplings can become utterly sick in another context.
Probably anything human that is healthy in one context can be sick in another.
. You may teach your chidlren that it’s ok to lust for that girl in their junior high school class, so long as they rapidly grow out of desiring that age group and target their age bracket upwards. Until they get sufficiently old at which point they might want to consider targeting their age bracket lust points downward, but in any event over the age of 18, or the age of consent.
In any event, stay within the normal legal limits. we can cover all this at home, no need to teach this at school