[quote=NYMom]I totally hear you. Our town where we live, the kids don’t even get bussed to school! We can walk to schools, the village, parks, friends houses, and my husband has a 7 minute walk to the train which takes him to NYC in 30 minutes. It’s ideal for sure. But he’s FROM California, and is dying to return. I think my marriage basically depends on it at this point. So, pretty compelling. :)[/quote]
if your marriage depends on moving, then I can relate. I was in the same position a bit over a decade ago. I was int he same boat. Almost certainly moving wont really make any difference to the reality fo whatever is wrong in his life. giving up relatives in the area has a high dollar value. i would put it at 900k.
