my general problem over my lifetime is confusing what should be with what is.
in spite of that, I’ve actually done remarkably well, all things considered. I attribute this to being married to a normal woman who makes decisions based on reasonable information and not overthinking things.
basically, I agonize over choices, and do whatever she says, unless it seems utterly insane, which hasn’t happened yet.
which is not to say I do everything she says. I dress how I like. I also recently started wearing a phone/wallet holster, over her objection.
