Most costs are for the material itself, so it is going to be highly dependent on the appliances, granite, tile, cabinets, and fixtures you buy.
From doing a recent complete remodel in north San Diego county, I can tell you a few labor rates for REPUTABLE contractors…if you pick fly-by-nighters, you may be able to find lower rates.
Demo/Install Shower/tub Wall Tile: $6 – 10 sf
Demo/Install Diagonal Floor Tile: $5 – 10 sf
Install Granite Countertops: $50 – 100 sf + $250 per sink cutout
Professionally Paint Interior: $2 – 3 sf of home, not wall space (this quote includes materials)
Install 8ft Long Bathroom Mirror: $300-400 (includes mirror)
Refinish Wood Floors: $3 – 5 sf
Install High-end Carpet: $5 sf and up (includes carpet, pad, and installation)
High-end material costs:
Kitchen sink: $500 and up
Granite: $800 and up per slab
Double Oven: $4000 and up (Wolfe, Viking, etc)
Gas Cooktop: $1500 and up (Wolfe, Viking, etc)
Travertine: $5 sf and up
For a small kitch, you’ll probably need 1 to 2 slabs of granite.
For a medium kitch as you’d find in a 3000-4000 sf house, 2-3 slabs
For a kitch in a 5000-up sf house, who knows!