Meadandale,
That is a very good suggestion, if luvsusan wants to be centrally located,as it seems. San Carlos might ggod too. She could look at condos or the smaller houses whch are mixed in with larger homes on either side of Golfcrest and around Lake Murray, for instance.
I have friends who live there who are quite happy with the opportunities available for their young daughter, this is considering that the mother is an elementary school teacher.