Look Mr “davelj” you need to be dropped into the scene in the movie “Malice” where Bill Pullman (as Andy Safian) gets a cold shot of advice from Ann Bancroft brilliantly playing the chronic drunk (but sharp as a whip) mother-in-law.
She says, “Get in the Game!”
And she implies that if you don’t know what the Game is, then you ARE the game.
